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2021.10.22 15:25 candlespine My best friend just told me her parents are getting divorced and that they’re in a bad financial situation, how can I help her?
My (17f) best friend E (17f) lives in a different state so we only see each other every few years. However we text all the time and are still really close despite how far we live from each other.
Earlier today E told me that her dad and step-dad are getting/just got divorced and that while she’s not surprised it’s still painful. This is the second divorce she’s going through (before I met E, her mom and dad divorced when she was really young) and it’s not something she usually talks about.
E also told me that she has to pack and move with her dad by the end of the day but they don’t know where they are going to go. E’s dads put a lot of money into opening a small business right and they didn’t make any of it back so now they have to shut it down. She’s told me before that money was difficult and there were times she wasn’t sure how they would afford food.
I’m really fortunate that my parents are happily married and my family has always been financially secure and because of this I’m worried I may say something insensitive instead of helpful/reassuring.
Usually I would comfort a friend by hanging out and talking with them or bringing them food or something like that, but with E I can only communicate through text (she doesn’t like video or phone calls). It’s hard for me to convey my support for E via text because I just end up repeating how sorry I am for her because I don’t know what else to say.
What can I say/do to comfort and support E and show her I care about her?
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2021.10.22 15:25 hom_func CPU advice for a small business server (NAS, NextCloud, internal DB); ECC required
I'm in the process of building a small server for a friend's small business, but I'm having some issues deciding on a CPU with ECC support (!).
Anybody got any recommendations? I've been eyeing with either an i3 8100, i3 8300, older Xeons (though noise and efficiency is a concern here) or a Ryzen 3600 + AsRock mainboard with ECC support, but I'm open to all kinds of suggestions! Thanks in advance!
at least 20TB NAS storage possibility of serving customers reasonably large amounts of data (though not many) once the networking side of things has been sorted out possibly some transcoding, though they seem to be content with their current solution, though that may change likely running bare Debian and a TrueNAS VM or just plain TrueNAS, depending on how comfortable I feel maintaining BSD as I'm doing this mostly as a favor ZFS nextCloud instance for ~5 employees a few Docker containers running a postgres DB and some internal tooling reasonably power-efficient since power is expensive in Germany reasonably quiet since it'll be located in a living area
2021.10.22 15:25 Rinzler_52 noise of sparks from M1 MBP
i put my head against the bottom of the my MacBook and head a light buzzing noise like there were sparks or something. i have noticed that my MacBook runs a bit warmer over the past couple of months.. anything I should be worried about"?.
the noise goes away when I put the laptop to sleep
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2021.10.22 15:25 Fact-Fresh If someone not a volley or serve player , will Leo still be good?
playing T5 and T6 .. just wondering if Leo worth all the hype .. Ok am a serve guy but thinking of switching to more AG and Stamina as not hitting above 200 anyway and found myself winning more when adding more AG and Stamina into my game.
No QS is ..what dose LEO offer aside from Volley or serve? dose his size help on catching further balls away from our grasp? am sure he will reduce times we hit the net .. but what else ..
As a thinking to use him in Rookie tournament with below average serve and Volley
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2021.10.22 15:25 Select-Savings7991 Autism, stimming, and masking?
So uh. Hello everyone. I (21, transmasculine) know my title is probably a little vague and doesn't provide much info but titles have never been my strong suit. Also this post will be quite long. Apologies for any spelling or grammatical errors. English is not my first language. I'm here with a question (more like a few questions) mainly based on the fact that I am considering the possibility of being autistic.
Let's go over what really started this whole journey of questioning and considering. My current partner mentioned very early on in our relationship that she thinks I show some signs but never really specified what made her think that way. The past 6-ish months I've been going to a counselor and at our last session she mentioned that she thinks I should maybe get assesed - mostly based on two factors. One being that I struggle immensely with sudden changes in structure and plans to the point where I almost start crying at even the smallest change. The same goes for spontaneous activities.
The second factor is my struggles with emotions. I struggle to name and put words to my own emotions and while I can recognize especially strong emotional responses in other people (crying, anger and the like) I struggle when other's emotions aren't as easily detected. I simply cannot figure out what they are feeling. Apart from that I also struggle with knowing what to do when other people show emotions. My partner often asks me for comfort when she's upset over something and I have absolutely no idea how to provide that for her. I also do not understand the desire to do nothing about negative feelings. My partner has told me multiple times that sometimes she just wants to feel upset or irritated and I should not do anything or say anything to make her feel better (not that I could anyway but I could at least try). I do not understand the desire to just sit and feel a negative emotion. My brain wants solutions to problems and I will always automatically try my best to find a solution if someone comes to me with a problem.
Some things I've noticed over the past weeks of questioning has been that I also struggle with eye-contact and generally knowing how to behave in social settings (especially with new people). I especially struggle with goodbyes and knowing when a conversation is over so I have often ended up leaving because I thought a conversation was over when my conversation partner(s) actually had more to say. I've also been told I can come across as callous and cold because I am often rather blunt and don't think about the fact that my words can hurt the other person(s) with whom I am having a conversation. I am seemingly unable to detect what other people want from me. I've always struggled with making friends and have been called odd a multitude of times. However, I am still able to keep friends around for the most part.
Apart from this I am extremely sensitive to certain input (especially sound and generally large masses of people at once) and I have always been an insanely picky eater mainly based on texture. Large masses of people overwhelm my brain to the point where I can only be around them for a few hours at a time before I need a long time to recharge and if I do not pull myself away from the group of people I will end up crying. I also have periods of obsession where I will get completely drawn into one specific thing/interest and then it will fade after some time (weeks or months, possibly a year or two at one point with one specific thing.)
And now we come to (one of) my question(s). While I cannot really say anything about my childhood as I barely remember anything, of what I can remember I have never noticed any repetitive behavior or stimming in myself. At least nothing I have ever thought of in this way. I used to bite my nails which has in later years turned into picking at the skin around my nails instead. I also bite my lips and the insides of my cheeks. Generally I am quite fidget-y but only with my hands and only in stressful (such as tough conversations or my classes) or boring situations. And sometimes at night and in the morning I will run my fingers and toes along the cover of my comforter because the sensation it provides is soothing and incredibly nice and have done so for as long as I can remember. Could all of this be considered stimming? And if not could it still be possible that I could be autistic even though I don't stim? Is masking stimming a thing?
Now my second question is whether it is possible for an autistic individual to mask so much that it becomes nearly impossible for both the world around them and themselves to notice? Having grown up thinking I am NT for 21 years could it be possible for me to have learned masking and observed the interactions of other people to the point where it is virtually impossible to detect without knowing me extraordinarily well?
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